Confessions of a (Former) Cake Anxietist

A few months ago I confessed to you all my extreme anxiety about what sort of cake to make for Sophie’s first birthday. While the resulting cake and cupcakes turned out well, the distress and mess they caused me took a toll! Last year for Joshua’s 3rd birthday I made this over-the-top train cake and it was also a huge stressfest. So this year, as his fourth birthday loomed, I decided I was not going to sweat it, for two reasons: 1) We were having two parties – so twice the stress and 2) He’s four years old and generally thinks any cake with icing is fantastic! He decided on a Veggie Tales birthday party theme, so I found a really easy Bob & Larry Cake to make. But in order to make it even easier, I decided to – gasp! – use store-bought frosting. I know, I know, I should be ashamed of myself. But I’m not, because you know what? I wasn’t making that frosting for Joshua, I was making it for ME. I absolutely LOVE that stuff! But it’s not my darn birthday and Joshua thinks all frosting is fabulous, so, I decided to give it up. Besides, I eat way too much of it while I am making it, and it creates a HUGE mess in my small kitchen, which adds to the STRESS. SO – no homemade frosting this time. I am glad I made that decision in hindsight, cause it took me FOR-EV-AH to mix the red-orange icing for Bob the Tomato from Veggie Tales. I knew this would be a challenge so I bought the fancy Wilton food coloring. And here’s how Bob & Larry turned out:

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Not too bad eh? I thought it was cute and Joshua pronounced it “cool”. I was going to repeat it for his second party that we had for his buddies (Bobby and I both have big families, so we just can’t have everyone over at once!), but the night before the party he informed me that he didn’t want another Veggie cake, he wanted a Thomas cake for this party! Now the old me would have flown into a cake-makin’ tizzy, but I just calmly said “ok”! I’d done a Thomas cake for his 2nd birthday and still had the cake topper. I didn’t want to make the exact same cake that I had made then, and I only had a few hours notice for this switch, so I did the EASIEST thing I could think of! Here it is in all its glory:

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Nothing fabulous, but it did the job! Joshua had a great birthday and I was not a nervous, icing-and-powdered-sugar-covered wreck the night before either party!

So, I am officially pronouncing myself “recovered” from cake-makin’ anxiety! And I’ve discovered it’s a whole lot nicer here on the sane side of the kitchen counter!

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Happy Birthday, Joshupants!

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Four years ago today at exactly 9 a.m., my baby Joshua entered this world. He was small and warm and breathtakingly beautiful. We immediately nicknamed his “Joshupants” and we still call him that! He has brought so much joy to my life – Bobby and I don’t know what we ever did without him! He was always the sweetest baby and he is still a super-sweet boy. I am so very proud of him, and I cannot believe that four years have passed since I became his mom! I love that he is so much fun now, so smart and so hilarious, but I long for the days when he babbled and chattered and sang “Who Are the People In Your Neighborhood” all day long without embarrassment, and didn’t know that he could tell me “no” or talk back!

But time marches on…so if you will, indulge me and take a moment to go back and read, or read for the first time if you are new here, some of “Joshua’s Greatest Hits”, if you will – some of my favorite Joshua moments that I’ve blogged about!

There’s the one where he spelled a dirty word with magnetic letters (unintentionally I swear!), the one where he said my arm fat looked like, well, something very embarrassing, the one where he emptied out the mall playplace, and my personal favorite, the one where he made me throw in the towel on potty training!

Hope you all enjoy “Joshua’s Greatest Hits” – I enjoyed being there while he was making them! I can’t wait to see what else my funny boy will do. Happy Birthday Joshua, I love YOU and I love being your Mommy!

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If you know Joshua and have a Joshua memory you’d like to share in the comments, feel free!

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I Feel Pretty! Oh So Pretty! Or Something.

The Other Jenny (as I like to call her…ooh maybe I should start calling her OJ! No? Allright then.) at Absolutely Bananas is hosting a brand-spankin’ new blog carnival called Make Me Laugh Monday. So I decided to get in on the fun since my children never cease to provide me with humourous material.

Saturday after I showered and dressed, I came downstairs and sat at the dining room table to do my makeup. Joshua sidled up to me and said, “Mommy, why do you always do your makeup after you take a shower?”

“Because I want to look pretty.” I replied.

My husband piped up, right on cue, and said, “Joshua tell mommy it doesn’t matter, she looks pretty anyways.”

Joshua looked at Bobby quizically, like he didn’t understand what he had said. “What?”

Bobby repeated, “Tell mommy it doesn’t matter, she looks pretty anyways.”

Joshua turned back to me and said with what I am hoping sure he thought was the proper emphasis, “Mommy, you look pretty angry.”

Ahem. Uh…so does that mean I should or shouldn’t wear makeup? Now I’m confused!

Head over to Absolutely Bananas for more Make Me Laugh Monday giggles!

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