I’m totally kidding (mostly)

But about 10 days ago I self-diagnosed myself with a wheat allergy and then on Thanksgiving I accidentally got some wheat in some food that I was carefully trying to avoid and – BAM! – had a reaction which means I REALLY DO have a wheat allergy and I can never eat anything good again EVER!!!

Which makes me want to end it all and go to heaven because I am pretty sure in heaven I can have pasta and GARLIC BREAD, dangit!

Ugggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

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Leftovers

Big Daddy's Leftover Pizza Frittata
Photo by John Carelton on Flickr

Back on 2009, or aught-nine as I like to call it, because it makes me sound old and crotchety (which I totally am in spirit), I had a fun little bout with birth-control-induced depression and anxiety.  And after awhile I quit taking the crazy pills (birth control) while simultaneously taking the anti-crazy pills (anti-depressants) and I got bettah.  When I got pregnant with Jonah, I stopped taking the anti-depressants  (Which? Weaning off of those while you’re already puking your guts out 24/7 anyway? NOT FUN!) altogether and I’ve never had to go back on them.  Sure, the night before my period starts I get a little UMMMM “moody” (so maybe I hate everyone in the world, that’s normal, right?), but other than that I don’t have issues with depression.

I do, however, still have a few “leftovers” from that time period of the anxiety variety.  And like most leftovers, they are unappealing.  However, they are at least not worse than the original incarnation.

My anxieties are these: claustrophobia, mostly due still to the elevator incident, and the fear of crowds.  The “elevator incident” occurred when I was in the midst of this depression-anxiety battle and well, it scarred me for life.  I ride elevators when I have to but I am an inner mess the whole time.  And despite  trying to play it cool for my kids, Joshua has picked up on my anxiety. He’s not afraid of elevators but he is always all about getting in and out of them as quickly as possible.  I hate that he knows something’s up when he’s in an elevator with me.

(Honestly, my heart is racing now because I am writing about being scared of elevators. I am scared of them.)

My BFF Luanne lives in a tall apartment building on the 6th floor. You have to enter a CODE to make the elevator work. Let me just say that each time I go to her house it is an act of bravery and an experience of fear. (She’s worth it).

On my recent trip to Toyota headquarters in California,  I waited for the last elevator when the group was going up together so that there’d be fewer people in with me.  I got out of an overly-full (by my standards) elevator more than once.

I’d love to get over this, to be cured of it or what have you, but I don’t know if that’s possible.  I can’t un-experience being stuck in an elevator with 12 other people for 45 minutes, smashed against the wall, crouched on the floor, being hot, panicked, having to wait so long for help.  I just have a bad feeling that I’ll always be this way.  But if I could get a happy pill prescribed to me to only be taken right before I had to step on an elevator, I would totally do it!

Now on to my fear of crowds.  I don’t know if this is it’s own thing or a morph of the claustrophobia.  But I pretty much don’t want to be anywhere crowded, ever.  I guess this really cuts my kids’ already-negligible chances of going to Disney World.  When I take my kids to the park, I internally flip my lid if there are too many people there. I can’t relax and watch them play. I am hyper-vigilant and if I lose sight of them for a nano-second I freak.   This usually ends in us having a pretty short park visit.  If there are not too many people there, I am ok, but if it’s kiddos and parents and possible creepy perverts everywhere? I can’t take it.  Same thing with anywhere indoors that we go – the kids and I have much more fun at the children’s museum if we wait til later afternoon when most day care or school field trips have cleared out.

My leftovers don’t incapacitate me, but they do inhibit me. They ruin parts of my day sometimes.  They make me afraid. They make me less fun for my kiddos.   They make me have this awful feeling in my chest just because I’m thinking about them while writing this.  And they’re a part of who I am that I don’t like at all.

I’m not quite sure what I need to do, if anything, besides pray about my problems in this area. What do you think? Do you have any leftovers or main dishes that you struggle with?

 

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Everybody hurts…themselves while putting away groceries. Right?

So like remember that time I told you that I suck at like, doing normal things like walking around and talking and remembering my own name and completing simple tasks without self-injury? Remember that???

Saturday I had to go to the grocery, and I hate going on the weekend but when I got back from California, we had very few edible items left in our home, so off I went. Taking one for the team!  Because the team. WAS. HUNGRY.  When I got home, Jonah was asleep and Bobby and the kids were in the basement, so I was all, “Yay, I can put the groceries away without the children trying to pick through the bags and rip open the cheez-its!  This is UTOPIA!!!”

So there I was, in my kitchen, which is practically Shangri-La,  happily putting veggies and cheese in the fridge, when I stood up and WHAM!!!!!!!!!!!!  Smacked my BELOVED FACE into the open freezer door.  This is sad, because a) it hurt and b) I am a little vain and slightly fond of my FACE.

I’m going to stop right here and recommend you close the freezer door when you are done putting things in it. Not just to  keep your food cold and conserve energy, but so that you don’t rearrange your FACE with it.

After yelling out in pain (I believe the word I used was “FUDGESICLES!!!!!!!”), I immediately put my hand to my nose and sure enough, that sucker was BLEEDING.  Good thing I was in such close proximity to the freezer. Frozen veggies sure come in handy at a time like this!  A little pressure, a little frozen veggie medley, and fortunately I was able to avoid any bruising from my unintentional attempted rhinoplasty. (Although it would’ve been fun to walk around in public with a bruised schnoz and make downcast eyes as people stared accusingly at my husband.  Right?  You better walk the line, Bobby Rapson!)

This is just another shining example of how marvelously dysfunctional I am.  I roam the highways and byways of our great world dodging the unrelenting barrage of my own bullets. How am I in charge of keeping three children safe every day!?  The odds?  ARE NOT GOOD, people.

Pardone me while I go wrap my kids in bubble wrap and proceed to online shop for padded EVERYTHING.

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