A Frigidaire Love Story

Perhaps you may have read that on Friday that Frigidaire announced that 40 lucky bloggers were going to be the proud recipients of Frigidaire appliances. Woohoo! Free refrigerators and washers and dryers for everyone!

Um, well, ok, not everyone. Sadly, Emily and I were not cool enough to be chosen to be a part of Team Frigidaire (though some of our friends were! Congrats!)

Frigidaire, I think we speak for the entire blogosphere when we say, “WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?” I mean, come on. We are undeniably fabulous and also would love new appliances. You missed the boat on this one, dudes.

But as much as we would have LOVED to have been chosen for this campaign, we can’t hold a grudge against you. Because you see, Frigidaire, if it weren’t for you, Emily and I wouldn’t be here.

Grandpa was a sailor

In 1946, after our grandfather Laton came home from fighting in the Pacific in World War II, he returned to his home in Eastern Kentucky and married his high school sweetheart, Kathleen. In 1947 they had my mother Diane, and in 1948 (*ahem*11monthslater*ahem*) they had Emily’s dad, Dan. In the hills of Eastern Kentucky where they had grown up, there was not any real opportunity for my grandparents to make a living. So in 1950, our grandfather and his young family came to Dayton, Ohio, where there were jobs, to start a new life. And, like his older brother who had come some months before, and like his younger brother would soon after, our grandfather took a job at the booming Dayton plant of a company called Frigidaire.

He and my grandmother and their two toddlers settled in the nearby little town of Germantown, Ohio, where eventually my mom met and fell in love with my dad, and Emily’s dad met and fell in love with her mom.

Our grandfather worked at Frigidaire until 1970, when he died of a heart attack at age 44 (sadly, about three weeks before Em’s parents got married. My mother was pregnant with my oldest brother at the time.) Emily and I never met him, but we sure are glad he had the courage to come to Dayton and start a new life as a young man. Because if he hadn’t? Our parents would never have met their spouses, Emily and I wouldn’t be here – and – tragedy of tragedies – you wouldn’t be reading this blog! {Shudder!}

But seriously, our grandfather’s employment at Frigidaire is nothing if not the model for the post-war American dream. He was a boy from the holler, who wasn’t even able to finish high school because he went off to fight for our country, but in no small part because he pursued opportunity, both of his children and all five of his grandchildren are college graduates.

Now perhaps you know from reading this blog that I am the sentimental sort. And you definitely know that I am the FRUGAL sort – so fortunately, when buying appliances for our home when we moved in eight years ago, sentimentality and frugality aligned perfectly, and as an ode to my grandfather, Bobby and I chose these:

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Seriously!

Yesterday as Emily and I and our families gathered at our grandma’s house to celebrate Mother’s Day, we couldn’t help but notice that Grandma has retained some Frigidaire loyalty as well. Her fridge is old-school but still hanging in there!

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So Frigidaire, you may not have given us shiny new flippin’ awesome appliances to blog about, but that’s all right, because in a way, you gave us something better:

Each other:

Friday nite cocktail par-tay!

Not to mention these little boogers:

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sophie loves to swing

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So thanks, Frigidaire. Really, the WORLD owes you thanks. Cause let’s face it, our kids are pretty awesome.

(And so are we. So call us, mmkay?)

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Slow & Steady is the New Black

At the ripe old age of 31, I’d like to think that I have figured out how to do a few things right. But the truth is, each day for me still seems to have a fair bit of trial and error involved. What I want for myself these days is to truly take notice of those trials that end in error and learn from them, because honestly, I need some life hacks.

So, I am working on that, which is why I thought it was a good fit when Reader’s Digest asked me to read and then write about an article they’ve got out, 7 Dumb Things We Do and share my thoughts on these things with you. The article was for me, a bit of an eye-opener, because according to it, multi-tasking is one of the 7 dumb things we do that lead to mistakes!

Multi-tasking?? I thought multi-tasking was GOOD! I know in every job interview I ever had, I always touted my great, amazing, fabulous ability to multi-task. “Multi-task” was definitely a job interview “buzz word” for me.

But you know what? The article is right. I make a lot more mistakes when I multi-task, and I waste a lot more time. I’ll go to start an article and then I’ll hear my email ding. I’ll answer two or three emails and then my Twitter notifications will beep. I’ll reply to some tweets and then my Skype message will start flashing. An hour later I’ve still got one error-laden paragraph written of my article and my two-year-old’s nap – my window to get work done – is almost over! If I’d just closed everything else on my computer except for my article, I could have had it done in thirty minutes. Believe it or not, it took me reading this article to realize that!

Multi-tasking can be bad for my parenting skills too. Trying to check email or write while Sophie is trying to climb up on my lap? Doesn’t work too well. Writing an article while pretending to watch Joshua play computer? I’m disappointing my kid and not getting any real work done. Giving the kids my full attention and taking care of what they need and then coming back to my work makes the situation much happier for both of us.

The “trick” that I really took to heart from this article was to “slow down”. It seems simple, but for me, it’s helped so much. When I am trying to do too much at once, my brain just starts dropping stuff – I can’t remember what I was about to do or had been doing and it makes me feel sort of panicky at times. How I’ve put “slowing down” into practice is taking tasks or playtime one at a time, and by making a “to-do” list at the beginning of the day. Since after a distraction I sometimes DO have trouble remembering what I need to do, or was about to do, it’s great to have a list to refer to.

For me, multi-tasking was the one out of the seven dumb mistakes we all make that I am really going to try and stop doing! What mistakes have you learned the most from?

“Reader’s

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Dayton Area Mom’s Nite Out Party!

National Mom's Nite Out: the Ultimate Celebration of Motherhood

Dayton area moms – we’re having a party! And you’re invited! Emily and I, along with Andrea from MommySnacks and Tara of DealSeekingMom are hosting a National Mom’s Nite Out party to encourage moms to get together for some good mommy fun!

Our party is this Thursday night, May 7th at 6:30 pm at a super-secret location in Dayton. If you want to come please email me at jenny at momminitup dot com, and I’ll send you all the details! We’ll have great food, prizes, pampering, and SWAG!

Hope to see you there!

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