Confessions of a (Former) Cake Anxietist

A few months ago I confessed to you all my extreme anxiety about what sort of cake to make for Sophie’s first birthday. While the resulting cake and cupcakes turned out well, the distress and mess they caused me took a toll! Last year for Joshua’s 3rd birthday I made this over-the-top train cake and it was also a huge stressfest. So this year, as his fourth birthday loomed, I decided I was not going to sweat it, for two reasons: 1) We were having two parties – so twice the stress and 2) He’s four years old and generally thinks any cake with icing is fantastic! He decided on a Veggie Tales birthday party theme, so I found a really easy Bob & Larry Cake to make. But in order to make it even easier, I decided to – gasp! – use store-bought frosting. I know, I know, I should be ashamed of myself. But I’m not, because you know what? I wasn’t making that frosting for Joshua, I was making it for ME. I absolutely LOVE that stuff! But it’s not my darn birthday and Joshua thinks all frosting is fabulous, so, I decided to give it up. Besides, I eat way too much of it while I am making it, and it creates a HUGE mess in my small kitchen, which adds to the STRESS. SO – no homemade frosting this time. I am glad I made that decision in hindsight, cause it took me FOR-EV-AH to mix the red-orange icing for Bob the Tomato from Veggie Tales. I knew this would be a challenge so I bought the fancy Wilton food coloring. And here’s how Bob & Larry turned out:

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Not too bad eh? I thought it was cute and Joshua pronounced it “cool”. I was going to repeat it for his second party that we had for his buddies (Bobby and I both have big families, so we just can’t have everyone over at once!), but the night before the party he informed me that he didn’t want another Veggie cake, he wanted a Thomas cake for this party! Now the old me would have flown into a cake-makin’ tizzy, but I just calmly said “ok”! I’d done a Thomas cake for his 2nd birthday and still had the cake topper. I didn’t want to make the exact same cake that I had made then, and I only had a few hours notice for this switch, so I did the EASIEST thing I could think of! Here it is in all its glory:

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Nothing fabulous, but it did the job! Joshua had a great birthday and I was not a nervous, icing-and-powdered-sugar-covered wreck the night before either party!

So, I am officially pronouncing myself “recovered” from cake-makin’ anxiety! And I’ve discovered it’s a whole lot nicer here on the sane side of the kitchen counter!

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Sneakin’ Around

Tonight I met a friend for coffee after dinner and then went to the grocery. When I got home, around 10:20, the house was silent. Everyone was in bed – husband and kiddos, and guess what I did? Nothing! (Well, I put the groceries away. And of course I took a picture of them first so I can show off my couponing skills in my Super Savings Saturday post!) Then I popped open a Coke and got my laptop and sat on the couch and actually watched some non-PBS Kids TV! I didn’t go upstairs and check on anybody. And I don’t think I will, not until I’m too tired to stay up and be by myself anymore. As long as I feel appropriately guilty about it, and I do, I think it’s acceptable behavior. 🙂 I get so little time to be by myself, just me, I’ve got to take it when I can. I love being with my family but it’s great to just be alone for a few minutes, with no one needing or expecting anything from me.

Of course my family is never far from my mind even when I’m along, so since I have a few minutes on my hands here, I want to share this photo of Sophie with you that I took this afternoon. THIS is what her hair looked like when she woke up from her nap today:

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You can also see in that devilish grin that she now has two teeth on top (one on the bottom too – and MAN is it sharp! Ohh I REALLY gotta wean her now!) What am I gonna do with this girl?

And here’s my super-cute 4-year-old boy having fun at our local children’s museum yesterday on his birthday!

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Well, I’m finally tired of myself…so, good night friends! I hope you caught a few minutes with yourself today too.

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Happy Birthday, Joshupants!

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Four years ago today at exactly 9 a.m., my baby Joshua entered this world. He was small and warm and breathtakingly beautiful. We immediately nicknamed his “Joshupants” and we still call him that! He has brought so much joy to my life – Bobby and I don’t know what we ever did without him! He was always the sweetest baby and he is still a super-sweet boy. I am so very proud of him, and I cannot believe that four years have passed since I became his mom! I love that he is so much fun now, so smart and so hilarious, but I long for the days when he babbled and chattered and sang “Who Are the People In Your Neighborhood” all day long without embarrassment, and didn’t know that he could tell me “no” or talk back!

But time marches on…so if you will, indulge me and take a moment to go back and read, or read for the first time if you are new here, some of “Joshua’s Greatest Hits”, if you will – some of my favorite Joshua moments that I’ve blogged about!

There’s the one where he spelled a dirty word with magnetic letters (unintentionally I swear!), the one where he said my arm fat looked like, well, something very embarrassing, the one where he emptied out the mall playplace, and my personal favorite, the one where he made me throw in the towel on potty training!

Hope you all enjoy “Joshua’s Greatest Hits” – I enjoyed being there while he was making them! I can’t wait to see what else my funny boy will do. Happy Birthday Joshua, I love YOU and I love being your Mommy!

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If you know Joshua and have a Joshua memory you’d like to share in the comments, feel free!

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