Smelling the Roses

It’s summer. And school starts in 37 days. Not that I’m counting or anything. *Ahem*.  Since I’m not a fun mom, I really do a little better with parenting when my big kids are in school.  When I have time to breathe without the 24-hour-a-day “MOMmomMOMmomMOMmomMOMmomMOOOOMMMMMM”! chorus that, punctuated with interspersed baby fusses and screams, gives me adult ADD and makes me want to pierce my eardrums so I can get a hearing aid that I can just turn off whenever I feel like it.

But wait, this is not where this post is supposed to be heading!  Because despite my frustration at all the togetherness this summer (which, really, is my problem, a problem I am having adjusting to being a mom of three, and not their problem at all), I love the crap out of my kids.  And I think they are the flipping BEE’S KNEES! I am so proud of them and am so thankful to be their mommy. So, to remind myself of what the heck I am supposed to be focused on, I thought I’d tell you a couple of my favorite things about each of my kiddos.

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Joshua. My firstborn.

He is exuberant, optimistic, enthusiastic.  He is loving. He loves his friends so much. He often writes sweet notes and letters to his friends, and is very generous with them.  He’s trustworthy.  He wants to do what’s right.  He’s a snuggler, still at seven. How long will I get to enjoy snuggles from my big boy?   I cherish every one.

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Sophia Diane. My girl.

She is funny.  Comic relief for this mama, she makes me laugh about a million times a day!  She is sweet as can be, and everything she does (good or bad) she does 110%.  She is nurturing.  I love the way she cares for Jonah and any other smaller child.  She is fierce.  Determined and stubborn in a good way.  I hope I can help her learn to always use that for good.

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Jonah. My baby.

He is happy. Wherever we go he blesses others with his beautiful smile and happy spirit.  He is a joy to be around.  He is silly, blowing raspberries and squealing loudly at all the right times.  He is loving, caressing my arm or face as he nurses.  He is my surprise baby and his sweet personality surprises me every day as it develops more and more.

I love these  babies. They make me crazy, but in between the crazy they bring me joy upon joy upon joy.

And in 10 years, when the older two are writing blog posts about me, I hope they’ll say I bring them joy more than I drive them crazy as well. But we’ll see…

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Summer Sickies

Well, it would appear that by writing a post about the Warm-Weather Cold as part of my work on the Vicks Blogger Brigade, I JINXED myself!  Or, rather, my little Sophie!  She has already had two warm-weather colds this summer, the second coming in combination with last week’s infected eye.

Of course, said cold includes a cough.  So it’s a good thing I’ve got my Vicks!  That’s one of my favorite things about Vicks VapoRub – even though I use it very liberally, it still lasts F-O-R-E-V-E-R.  I’d say we get about an average number of colds in our house each year, and I don’t have to run out and buy a new jar of VapoRub every time – it is a great value for the money!

Ever since Joshua had his first cold as a toddler, I have been frustrated by the lack of available and effective cold medicines for children.  There is pretty much nothing safe to give a child under 2, and the evidence shows that most cough & cold medicines for kids don’t really work all that well.  But I have found VapoRub to be effective and safe for kids over 2 time and time and time again! And there’s always Vicks BabyRub for the really little ones!

So – since we’ve got some summer sickies around here, I’ve whipped out the Vicks to soothe Sophie’s cough once again.  It helps us all sleep better at night (right now she’s really only coughing at night) and it makes me feel good to know it’s totally safe, something my family has used for three generations now!

So if you’ve been hit with the warm-weather cold this summer, don’t forget to get out the VapoRub to soothe those coughs!  And don’t forget to check out the Vicks VapoRub Facebook page to learn about Vicks and discuss the product with other VapoRub users!

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Motherhood, or something like it.

Oh, these children.  These children of mine, I love them so much.  And I wanted them so much.  I don’t remember not wanting them.

And if someone would have told me, when I was a starry-eyed tween dreaming of a family one day, of a cute baby who’d adore the crap out of me, that I’d be hiding from my own spawn in the kitchen sucking down a Mountain Dew and freebasing cookie dough to deal with the STRESS they’d be causing me, well, I’d have said “that sounds like crazy talk”.

But, as it turns out, it’s like, very realistic talk.

No one tells you, when you’re pregnant, or trying to get that way, that although your baby will surely adore you, there will quickly come a time when they adore themselves so much more.  And this time is acutally a long stretch of years when the natural selfishness of a child takes over and they kind of treat you like crap.  When they can’t see that mommy is exhausted, depleted, or for goodness’ sake BUSY because really, their IMMEDIATE EMERGENCY need for fruit snacks is pretty much all-consuming.

I know I was like this as a child.  We all were. And now I am an adoring daughter and my mom and I enjoy a wonderful relationship, so clearly at some point I stopped being a selfish little leach.

So that’s good.  There’s a light at the end of the tunnel.  Maybe in about 2o years my children will see me as more than a means to an end.

A mom can dream.

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