A Letter to Target From the Mom of a Girl

Dear Target,

Ever since I first discovered you in college, when I went away to school to a Land That Had a Target when my hometown did not, I have loved you. I was very happy when, by the time I graduated and moved back home, we had Targets galore in my city. And now, if I think, as I often do, “I need to go to Target!” or more likely, “I need to find an excuse to go to Target because I LOVE TARGET!” I can rest assured knowing there are not one, not two, but three Target stores equidistant from my home and two more a little further out if need be. Whew!

All that to say, Target: I love you long time.

I love your bright lights, clean aisles, and your printable, mobile, and Cartwheel coupons. I love your clearance. I love your Red Card that is linked to my checking account and saves me 5% every time I shop.

What I DON’T love? Your girls department. To be honest, most of my 7-year-old daughter’s clothes are very nice hand-me-downs, and I’ve never really taken a good, hard look at your girls’ department until last night, when I was trying to find her something appropriate for “super hero dress up day” at school. And then, I took a very good, L-O-N-G look.

You know what I found in the girls’ department? Minnie Mouse, My Little Pony, Ever After High, and Hello Kitty. You know what I found in the boys’ department? Batman, Superman, SpiderMan, the Avengers, and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. Forgive me if I’m just a little frustrated.

There should be hero options in the girls’ department. There should be options beyond pink and sparkle. Does my daughter LIKE pink and sparkle? Yep.  Does she LIKE Hello Kitty? Yep. Does she LIKE superheroes? Yep. Should she have OPTIONS available for both types of clothing? Absolutely. I wasn’t even looking for a GIRL superhero necessarily (although a little Wonder Woman never killed nobody. Right?) but some of those lady Avengers would’ve been cool. But I’d also have been cool with SpiderMAN, BatMAN, and SuperMAN t-shirts in the girls’ department. Because you can be a fan of a superhero regardless of said hero’s gender.

In the end, after a l-o-n-g tour around every part of the store I thought could POSSIBLY offer a solution to this problem, I bought my daughter a Batman t-shirt from the boys’ department, a Batman hat from the boys department, a yellow mask attached to a set of underoos from the boys department, and a pair of black leggings from the girls’ department. It turned out pretty cute:

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But my shopping experience left me jaded. Target, my friend, our girls deserve better options. So why don’t you go back to the drawing board and make more and  better t-shirt options for them? My daughter loves Super Mario Bros., Sonic, LEGO, and pretty much everything else that’s available in the boys’ department. And while we’re at it, why not make KIDS some t-shirts with real heroes on them, too? Like Amelia Earhart or Neil Armstrong, for instance. I’d buy those t-shirts.

I love you, Target. But I know you can do better. So DO better.

Love,

Jenny

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Marc Allison Jeans Review + Giveaway!

Marc Allison Jeans provided me with the review item and will provide the winner’s prize. All opinions are my own.

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Way back in 2010, I reviewed a pair of Marc Allison Jeansskinny jeans no less – and I absolutely loved them. Four years later – 4 years, people!! – I am still loving that very same pair. They look and feel just as awesome as they did back then. So NATURALLY, when I got the chance to review a new jean from Marc Allison Jeans, and give a pair away to a reader, I jumped at the chance! So friends, meet Gina.

The Gina is a slim boot cut, so they’re very different from the skinny jeans I reviewed before. However, I can tell they are from the same maker because they feel just as amazing on. These jeans are special – and you can tell it from the minute you put them on. You can tell they’re “premium” quality – the fabric hugs your body without being tight, and not to be too cliche, but they really do feel like a second skin. The Gina does hug your upper leg like a skinny jean, but then flares out at the knee to become a boot cut – but not a wide flare, a really nice, slim, flattering boot cut. They are the perfect every day jean! I chose the charcoal wash for mine because I felt like I needed something different in my wardrobe, and I love it! The Gina is available in 8 different washes so there’s something for everyone. Here’s some more pics of how she fits,  and since NO ONE wants to see me from this angle, I’ll just go with the official photos!

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So here’s the secret behind the reason WHY these jeans fit and feel so great: Marc Allison Jeans have a 4-way stretch, which they call the “X-Fit”. It allows the denim to move with you in all directions, and to recover perfectly – so they’ll keep their perfect shape for several wears between laundering. And – the super-softness of the denim is due to luxurious Pima cotton  – trust me when I tell you you can feel the difference!

So, who wants to win a pair of these lovely jeans? YOU ALL DO, believe me! Here’s how to enter:

1) Leave a comment on this post telling me WHY you want to win a pair of Marc Allison “Gina” jeans.

Optional for another entry:

2) Fans of Marc Allison Jeans on Facebook will earn another entry. Just leave a separate comment letting me know that you are a fan.

3) Tweet about the giveaway “I want to win a pair of @marcallisonjean jeans from @jennyitup @momminitup http://bit.ly/1hh62RN #giveaway ” and then leave a second comment on this post with your tweet URL. (You can copy and paste this tweet.)

4) Re-pin this pin of this giveaway and come back here and leave me a comment with the pin URL.

One winner will be chosen Wednesday April 9 at 6 pm. Good luck everyone!

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Enough {Reprise}

My friend Jeannett over at Life Rearranged asked me to write a guest post for a series on her blog about depression, which I battled a few years ago. When I was writing it, I came across this post from that time, which was hard to read, but also good to read. I hope you’ll read it today and read my guest at Life Rearranged tomorrow (and read the first in that series today).

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Originally published June 2009

“How’s your brain?” a friend asked me this weekend. Meaning, to ask, of course, if I was still losing my ever-loving mind.

“Eh. I have good days and bad days.” I replied.

Which is true, but it’s not quite that simple. Some days I have really good days, and some days I have really bad days, and some days, I am just not quite right. Some days it is my mental health that needs a tune-up, and other days my hormones still torture me physically.

I am working on it. I have medication, I have routine doctor’s appointments, and now, after a good talk with the aforementioned friend, I have some social and activity-related goals I am going to set for myself. To be proactive, and perhaps, help my body chemistry along a bit.

But the truth is I am tired. Tired of trying to get better, tired of waiting to get better, tired of not being better. Tired of feeling totally awesome for a couple of days and then the crushing disappointment of feeling the opposite of awesome the next day.

And sometimes, I am afraid. Afraid that this will be the rest of my life. Afraid that I will end up laying in the middle of my lawn speaking jibberish and wearing my underwear on my head. Afraid that if I post about being crazy I will not be invited to cool mommy blogger events or win friends and influence people (hey I never said my fears were rational.)

What will I learn from this…period in my life? I want to know it, this lesson, I want to have learned it, earned it, put it into practice. I want to tuck it into my back pocket and say, “Oh, I am so glad I had that experience because it made me a better person.”

The Bible says we are to count our trials as joys. Because they build faith, and character. It also says they that wait on the Lord will soar like eagles. And soaring instead of muddling sounds lovely right now, and I want to do it. So I wait. And I remember, in my saner moments, in the quiet, in the stillness, that it is enough that God knows. He knows the number of my days, which ones will be a battle and which ones will be full of effortless joy. He knows these things that it is not time for me to know yet, and for that I am so thankful. It is unknown to me but it is not unknown.

It is enough.

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