Three is A Magic Number

A few months ago, when I wrote this post about the struggle I was having knowing whether or not Bobby and I were “done” having kids, reader Liz wrote this comment:

Somebody once told me you’ll always regret not having a child, but you will never regret a child you have…

Those words have stuck with me.

Which is part of the reason that when I called Emily the other day and she said, “What’s up?” and I said, “Um, you know how I’ve always said I’ll probably have an unplanned pregnancy because I’m so critical of couples who do and act like they had no idea how it happened…”

I said it with much joy and laughter!

But it’s true!

Bobby and I are thrilled to announce that we are expecting our third baby.  We’re gonna have THREE kids!!  THREE!!  And you know what the wise sages of School House Rock say:  Three is a magic number.  Yes, it is!  It’s a magic number!

We gave away all our baby stuff long ago.  I gave away all my maternity clothes.  We don’t know where we’re gonna put this kid.  I can’t fit three car seats in my car.  I had even told my pregnant cousin Anna that she could have my crib – the last baby thing we have.  Oops!  (Sorry, Annie.  I’ll make it up to you!  By having a BFF for your baby!)

But that doesn’t matter.  It’s all going to be awesome.

Bobby and I have been walking around grinning and shaking our heads at each other for the past couple of days.  We really can’t believe it.  A big surprise, not part of “the plan”, but we are sooooo happy & thankful for this new gift that God has given us.

I can’t believe it!!!! Can you??

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  1. Yippee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thrilled for you guys!!!

  2. Oh girl! We were in the same boat about 2 yrs ago and I must say the 3rd time IS a charm! He has been the BEST baby!! I could not imagine our little family without him! Congrats!!

  3. Tara says:

    We are in the same situation. Well…maybe not quite the same. Baby #2 just turned 8 months old so we still have all of our baby stuff. But now we’re thinking how are we going to fit 3 carseats in our small cars, etc.
    Definitely a big surprise and not part of OUR plan, but I guess it was part of God’s plan so we’ll just roll with it. :) Hubby thinks it’s funny because I tend to be a bit of a control freak and now God is putting me in my place. Guess he’s probably right!
    All the best with your pregnancy!!

  4. JENNY!!!!! I am so excited for you and Bobby. You guys are amazing parents and this little baby (boy??) is lucky to have scored you two!

  5. Terra Jones says:

    so exciting!!!!! Congrats!!!!!!

  6. Tammy Munson says:

    J-Rap – OMG! I’m soooooo happy for you and Bobby! WOOHOOOOOOO!

  7. UP says:

    Have you learned nothing from Bristol Palin?

    er…I mean, congratulations!

    UP

  8. Robyn says:

    Congratulations!!! That’s so exciting!

  9. AmazingGreis says:

    Oh…..Em…..Gee!!!!!!

    Now I really need to move to OHIO!!!! Yaye for babies, what great news!!! When are you due and are you going to find out what you’re having? :)

    XOXOX

  10. Krista says:

    Congrats! Love you. Hope it is catching.

  11. Pocklock says:

    Congratulations to you and Bobby! How fantastic!

  12. Melissa says:

    Congratulations!!

  13. Congratulations! How exciting!!!

  14. Burgh Baby says:

    Wooooo! Congratulations!

  15. Melissa says:

    Congratulations Jenny! This is exciting news! I like the comment that Liz posted on your previous post… that is so true! what joy a new child will bring to your life.

  16. Mercedes says:

    Thrilled for you! Now off to hunt for diaper deals for you!

    Mercedes

  17. Annette says:

    Congrats!!!!!!!!!

  18. Mackenzie says:

    HURRAH! Since you gave away your baby stuff you can now have another baby shower, rock!

  19. WOOT!

    Oh my! SOOOO excited for your bunch!

    Blessings blessiings BLESSINGS!

  20. Laurin says:

    That is amazing news! Congratulations!!

  21. Suzanne says:

    Congratulations! Hope you have a smooth pregnancy and a wonderfully content baby!

  22. liz says:

    Hey that was ME who said that!!
    I am so happy for you, what a joy!!!
    My dh and I are playing with the idea of #3 also.
    Best of luck and have a very happy and healthy 9 (10) months!!

  23. So happy for you!

  24. Dawn says:

    Awesome :) I have baby stuff you can have :)

  25. Congratulations! Well since you got rid of everything we are going to have to sign you up for a bunch of baby freebies LOL

  26. Katie says:

    YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAY!!!! Congrats!!! Three really is the magic number! It honestly might be a HUGE adjustment (speaking from experience) but you will never ever regret a moment! God is so good, He will provide everything you need for this little guy/girl, even room in the backseat of your car! :)

    I too “thought” I was done and gave away all my baby stuff (except the crib, thank goodness).

  27. this is most awesome. Congrats my friend!

  28. Emily E says:

    OMG! YAY!!!!! I’m so excited for you! :D

    Congratulations!!!!

  29. Jenn says:

    Hello my name is Jenn and I just stumble on this blog but had to comment. We too are currently expecting baby #3 in Dec 2010. This is a planned pregnancy and we toyed with the decision since our kids will now out number us :0) We are so happy and excited to welcome another miracle from God. I pray that you have a very healthy pregnancy! ~Many Blessings, Jenn

  30. Trina says:

    Congratulations! That is exciting! We have three and the last one was a (joyful) surprise. We had to trade in our car to have a back seat big enough for three car seats. We now have a Toyota FJ Cruiser. My husband would measure every back seat we looked at just to be sure. Hope you have an uneventful and healthy nine months!

  31. Jeni says:

    Surprise babies are the best (but don’t tell my others that!). Great news…what a blessing!! Love this today :) !

  32. Congratulations girl! Thats awesome :)

  33. Hillary says:

    That’s so exciting! You’re going to LOVE having three kids! Congratulations!!!

  34. Lacie says:

    Congratulations….that’s so exciting :)

  35. Amy in OHio says:

    Love you lady – so happy for you!

  36. Jenny, I just love how excited you are!!! And I’m excited FOR you! (And, okay, I’ll admit it – totally looking forward to some funny pregnancy stories. :) )

  37. What! What! What! What!!!! How did you KEEP THIS TO YOURSELF?? We had that moment in the Fondue Booth and everything??!!!! I am SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!! Three is a good number and will totally solidify that it is a complete number to a family :)

    And, I still have tons of baby crap you can have! Let’s hope it’s a boy cuz he should be set!

  38. Kathy says:

    I just happen to be having a garage sale with baby stuff this Thursday and Friday. My sister is selling a Graco Travel System. It’s only been through one child. It has the carseat, the stroller, and two bases. She has a high chair, too. E-mail me if you are interested. The stroller looks BRAND NEW and it’s gender neutral. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! We are expecting #2 in September. Babies are SO much fun…planned or not!

  39. Sky says:

    Congrats! I’m so excited for you and your family!!

  40. jen says:

    Yaayyyyyy! Three IS a magic number! I have three. We didn’t “plan” any, but I’m so thankful for them. CONGRATULATIONS!!!

  41. Mandy says:

    CONGRATULATIONS!!!! :)

  42. Tricia says:

    So happy for you! And at the same time picking up the phone to make Ben a snip, snip appointment. I love my kids but Lord knows I can’t handle three or another pregnancy! I also might have some maternity clothes that would fit you!

  43. I can NOT believe it! Congratulations! I’m so happy for you and your family!

    I *just* wrote a post where I was all “THREE KIDS? WTH?” and I’ve had my third for 6 months now. I don’t know when it wears off, but having gone through essentially the exact same decision-making process you described above, I can promise you that three is a magic number.

    I don’t know what I was thinking with the whole “we’re done” business. We don’t know what’s good for us. Nuzzling baby feet. Now that’s good for us.

  44. bethany says:

    SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS..WE DIDN’T REALLY HAVE ROOM FOR OUR #3 BUT IT ALL WORKS OUT SOME HOW.. SOME ONE EVEN BLESSED US WITH A VAN…. AND YOU WILL PROBABLY END UP WITH MORE BABY CRAP THAN YOU EVER WANTED… LOVE YOU SO MUCH SO THANKFUL TO CALL YOU MY FRIEND =)

  45. So happy for you! We’re expecting our 4th in September. Will that be our magic number? Who knows?!

  46. This is great news! And you know what I always say: The more, the messier!

  47. Rachel Ennis says:

    Congratulations! So happy for you!

  48. Sometimes you need God to give you a little shove, right? I too had passed on EVERYTHING (there are almost 6 years between Anna and Zoe). Congratulations. Rejoicing with you!

  49. Gwen says:

    Congrats, Jenny! That is wonderful news! Gotta love those unexpected blessings…our second was one of those!

  50. Laura says:

    Congrats! Coming from one of those couples that walked around wondering “how it happened” with number 3, welcome to the zone defense:) It will be an adventure, that is for sure!

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